Showing posts with label Dealing with stress. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dealing with stress. Show all posts

Sunday, January 21, 2024

Where Does Your Worst Enemy Live

Where Does Your Worst Enemy Live? 

Our worst enemy is nearer than we might think, for it is closer than your breath.


Make Sure Your Worst
Enemy Doesn't Live
Between Your Two Ears.
Laird Hamilton


You know those negative thoughts, those imaginary battles we all face. You and I know all about those conversations that we have with ourselves about the never-gonna-happen events and circumstances in life, and yet, we persist in continuing these conversations.

We fight a constant battle in this arena, and we constantly have to be on our guard. Sometimes, these arguments and scenarios feel good, and we feel self-righteous and victorious with the arguments we create in our minds. And we probably win a lot of these made-up battles that no-one ever sees.

And the enemy still exists.


I’m reminded of a Bible verse I learned a long time ago. 


“Take Every Thought Captive.”

To me, it means:

~Stop the fight. Be aware of what is happening and bow out of that fight. 

~Redirect and place your thoughts onto truth, what is or what should be. 

~If the issue is real and needs addressing, take the appropriate measures and have the hard conversations.

These are such easy words to write, and yet I fight this same enemy from time to time.

I’m in this battle with you.




P Michael Biggs 

Hope~Encouragement~Inspiration


Sunday, March 26, 2023

Discovering Silence

 Discovering Silence

I am a drummer. Drums are loud, not silent except perhaps in the opening few bars Ravel’s Bolero. That is almost silence.

Music has been my life all my life. There are splashes of silence throughout most musical compositions in the form of rests, but they are fleeting seconds at best.

So, what is the meaning of discovering “silence”?

In moments of trauma, of distress, of my world being upset and knocked off balance – these are times when I’ve discovered silence. There is peace and comfort in silence, if one can truly embrace that soundless oasis. And it is not for the faint of heart.

In moments of personal crisis and in peaceful seasons of calm and bliss, I’ve found myself longing for silence, desperately needing silence. Isn’t that odd of a drummer? Sound and noise are what drumming is all about.

Ah, but those moments of silence.

As I age, I find my need for silence growing with intensity. The peace and calm of silence is what I seek.  No noise, no sounds, not even Dvorak’s New World Symphony.  I simply need silence.

Silence allows us to hear the unheard, the silent voices, the whispers from a bigger, wiser source to seep through to our souls and minds. Some call this meditation, and that’s good. Some call it tuning into a higher power, and that’s good. Some call it the calm in the middle of the storm, and if that metaphor works for you then that’s good.

The world is a noisy place. Multitudes of musical tastes can be had from numerous sources if one chooses. Traffic is thick and loud in our larger cities. Jets zoom overhead, car horns blare, babies cry, dogs bark, balloons pop, doors slam, people interrupt, dishes get banged, our electronic gadgets put out an abundance of sound. Carolyn and I fall asleep to the sound of a machine that produces “white noises’, and it's all good. This “white noise” is supposed to mask my snoring, and any other sounds that seep in through our windows and walls in the night.

I suppose that is a form of discovering silence through steady sound. How ironic is that!

Ah, but the healing power of silence is magical. When we reach those moments of peaceful bliss in silent retreat, well, that is a slice of Heaven.

These silent and still moments don’t come easy, AND we make them happen. It is an on-purpose kind of experience that is sought, not bought.

We decide to have a moment in time of silence, a break from noise, and intrusions into our bombarded senses.

My friend Mitch often seeks his silent moments in nature. On Facebook, I often travel with him to some amazing, gorgeous landscapes and mountain vistas that our Pacific Northwest has to offer.

I’ve often driven to Sunset Avenue here in Edmonds just to sit and watch and listen. The Puget Sound has its own rhythm of the tides coming and going, and the Seagulls gliding and riding the currents in majestic quietness. All of this is a great source of peace and beauty.

The radio stays off. The windows are rolled up. The walkers and runners and bikers pass by with not a sound that interrupts my moment of bliss. I’ve even known moments of sleep or dozing in the middle of all this beauty. How about that? Isn’t that a perfect picture of discovering silence?

And what do I hear in the middle of these moments of silence? Oh, there is nothing audible that I come away with. But what it does for my soul and my psyche is immeasurable. Sometimes I have viewed my Sunset Avenue times as being in a ‘Sorting Hat’ machine. The ‘Sorting Hat’ comes from the Harry Potter movies and is used to place new students into one of four houses in which to live. I have been able to sort thoughts, problems, health issues and ways to allow my body to heal. I listen for the gentle nudging’s of what I call “God” in my moments of silence. And I’ve retreated into silence when writing so that I can touch a deeper part of my soul and instincts that bring to light an occasional idea in need of expansion.

Silence works for me. I often come away from these moments with a renewed energy, some new thoughts, and new and improved desires with which to serve Carolyn, my family and mankind.

I love my moments of discovering silence.

Morning Notes Blog Site

P Michael Biggs 

Hope~Encouragement~Inspiration

Saturday, October 19, 2019

The World Is Noisy


The World Is Noisy

The world is noisy.  And we search for peace and quiet.  Hard to find?  Perhaps.  Sometimes we make our own space, time and place for peace and calm. 

It’s important, you know.  There is a lot of stuff in this world that seeks to distract us.  That is why I’ve seriously curbed my TV watching over the past few years.  With the availability of streaming, if we’re going to watch, we pick what, when and for how long.  TV is not the dictator.  I dictate.

My important places for moments of peace and quiet are …

~Sitting along Sunset Avenue here in Edmonds.  I get to watch seagulls glide on the wings of the wind, and watch the water traffic, walkers, and all else in my view.  It is quiet an oasis.

~Anytime and anyplace when the crashing of the waves can be found.  What is it about that particular sound that appeals to so many?

~Mountain views and lake views add a sense of peace and calm anytime I can partake.

~I’ve had a few quiet moments in libraries.  They don’t allow noise and distractions in those places.  I love that kind of stillness.

~My home office provides an amazingly peaceful space.  I’m here now, at 4:44AM, and all is well in my world.

Stop the chatter.
Halt the social media feed.
Turn off the radio, TV, and other electronic devices, and go to the quiet place.

What a great gift to give to yourself.


This is my
morning reflection.



P Michael Biggs
Hope~Encouragement~Inspiration


Sunday, October 13, 2019

Broken Eggs Teach


Broken Eggs Teach
  
The other morning, I set out to fry up a couple of eggs.  Oops.  I broke one of the yokes.  I could have tossed both eggs out, however, I made scrambled eggs instead. 

There are always choices, plan B, and a different route to take when the original plan is stopped dead in its tracks.  Get the picture?

I had choices with those eggs.  Scrambled, even an omelet. 

I once had a great job and it finally played out.  They moved to Nashville and I couldn’t make that move at that particular time.  Another job within the same company opened up and it took me to Waco.  I chose the scrambled eggs of Waco over the ham and biscuits of Nashville, and it is amazing at the twists and turns and life experiences my life has seen.

Every experience – EVERY one holds our future.  Our job is to look for the serendipitous moments along the way.


This is my
morning reflection.



P Michael Biggs
Hope~Encouragement~Inspiration