Wednesday, September 6, 2017

Down Times

I believe in down times.  I believe in the importance of sometimes shutting down.  We cannot work 24/7/365 and expect to be consistently effective. 

In June 2016, I felt a great need for a
sabbatical from writing, and so I shut down from then until Labor Day 2016.  I didn’t write even one piece.  My readership suffered.  My number of clicks went down.  And that was okay.

When I resumed my full writing schedule on Labor Day, 2016, the energy was back, the focus was back, and the creativity was back.  And in time my number of clicks came back and exceeded what had previously been my high points.

I believe in down times.

On a miniscule way, I experience this concept.  Often, after writing for a couple of hours I’ll reach a stuck spot.  I find those are often good times to go get that cup of coffee.  Even that ten-minute break gives me a walk-away moment and I often come back and can re-engage on an idea that needs dressing. 

I believe in down times.

I believe in vacations – long, two-week vacations, and I believe in short Friday-Sunday getaway times.

I hope you have some down times. 


This is my morning reflection!


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Thursday, August 31, 2017

How Did I Get Here

I am here, today, in this moment, because of a lot of help from a lot of individuals.

I’m here because of …

~The man who taught me typing – Mr. Seay
~Jim, who inspired me as a young, wanna-be music director
~Various English teachers whose instructions sank in

I’m here because of …
~Chris, who was one of my first computer gurus
~Jim, a role model and mentor in my spiritual walk
~Ronn, whose musical genius inspired my life at various moments, in many ways, one note at a time

I’m here because of …
~Mr. Speed and Jack G, my first two bosses, who overlooked my initial blunders in the workplace and extended patience
~Mr. Laurie, my most memorable band director, for nurturing my musical thirst
~Joe, Paul, Mike G, Uncle Ed, and others who befriended me, guided me, modeled for me great friendships and consistent and steady Christian values

I’m here because of …
~A home based on Christian values
~A college that provided a quality education
~A town that gave me room to grow and friendships for a lifetime
~HIS, one of the great writers and communicators, and a lifelong friend.

I’m here because of …
~Books I’ve read
~Seminars attended
~Deep conversations at just the right moment in a lifetime of living

How did I get here?
I got here because of all these individuals, and thousands more, and because of opportunities afforded me, lessons learned, and growth moments in spite of a bad moment in time.

I got here because of some of you who read my blogs and books.  Your words of encouragement have meant much to me.

I got here because of the love of my life – you are my rock, CB.

We are connected – you and me.
We draw strength and stamina from our friendships – past and present.

How did we get here?

Because of the mosaic that God has woven of all the people, places, educational moments and life experiences we have shared.

We really do need each other.

This is my morning reflection!


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Wednesday, August 23, 2017

Raw Talent - and Unaccepted



Bob Dylan was booed off the stage at his high school talent show. 

Randy Travis, Country Music legend, was rejected by every major music label - twice. 

Barbara Walters was told to stay out of television in 1957 by a prominent producer. 

Lucille Ball was told by the head instructor of the John Murray Anderson Dram School, "Try another profession.  Any other."

John F. Kennedy lost the election to be President of his freshman class at Harvard.  He failed to win a post on the student council as a sophomore and later dropped out of Stanford Business School 

Steven Spielberg's mediocre grades prevented him from getting accepted to UCLA film school. 

Could not those interviewers see who was standing in front of them?  Didn’t they get a hint, a stirring in their inner being that this person was a great one in the making? 


Those are the first questions that come to mind when I consider these individuals who later became stellar personalities in their respective fields.

And then I quickly turn to this … after those failures and rejections, what did each of them do?  What were the steps that took them from rejection to recognition?

That is the valley through which we all travel.  Raw, untested, unrecognized talent is a hard thing to bear.  Innately, we may know we are something special, or have some special gift, yet how do we turn it into a useable and recognizable opportunity? 

That is the dilemma that Bob, Randy, Barbara, Lucille, John and Steven faced, and they probably faced it more than once in their lives.

And what do any of us do about that in our own lives?

Ah, that is worth reflecting on.

Of course, they kept going.  That is obvious by their now recognized success status.  They each went back to their practice room, or office, or home, or wherever they went and tried again.  They continued honing their skill.  They read more, studied more, practiced more.

They took their small measure of skill and made it grow some more.  Perhaps they found more and better role models.  Maybe they went back to class, read more, sought out a mentor. 

Bottom line – they found a way to take their raw and earnest talent and turn it into a recognizable skill that others wanted.

They worked in the dark, in the unknown school of oblivion until their skill met opportunity and recognition.

Raw and unaccepted is no fun. 

And those are the perfect conditions for becoming whatever it is your heart desires.

So much of this is up to us, isn’t it?

This is my morning reflection!


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